Kasterwey
1. Suffocate the relationship We are all independent people, we were born alone and one day we will have to leave this world alone. The error is found in suffocating the partner, prohibiting him from having social relationships or independent activities. An example: They are the classic couples where they are always together for everything, they even work in the same place or have the same business. We must understand that we all have personal goals! Being married can protect against developing heart disease, stroke, and other associated risks of death, while single and widowed individuals are at higher risk. 2. What you think is obvious may not be. We women tend to think that many things we do are obvious and we hope that our partner understands what it is we need to feel good. As if they read our thoughts. Remember that each person is in their inner world, thinking about their goals, problems or concerns, that is why they will not be able to guess your thoughts. It is advisable to know how to communicate correctly, avoid the obvious and assumptions, so that you can receive the answer you want, in terms of your feelings and needs. 3. Complaints and more complaints Think about it! Nobody likes to be with a person who complains all the time and who is not happy with their life. Some women often complain about everything, without thinking about how lucky they are to have a man who loves them, healthy children, money, etc. Avoid that your talks are complaints, on the contrary, that they are full of motivation and positivism. Remember to detect these behaviors and attitudes, to prevent your relationship from failing. Try to establish assertive communication with your partner and don't forget to express your feelings and needs. 4. You never think of yourself Your partner, your children, your relatives, even your pets will always be your priority, however, you have put aside what you want and need to feel happy, you live for others without first thinking about meeting your own needs. Many times we make the mistake of sacrificing our tastes and interests to please our partner and that can lead us to feel unhappy over time. When it is a deep feeling and you have a long time with that feeling, the relationship is likely to fail. 5. Jealousy It is normal to be jealous of the couple from time to time, however, there are women who are too jealous, who spend their time spying on social networks, telephones, computers, they even call all the time, to find out where their partner is or what are you doing. They are women who fear infidelity and who will always be looking for something that probably does not exist. The ideal is to avoid jealousy, recognize that you are insecure and work on it, you can support yourself with some type of therapy in case you cannot control them on your own.
